High Achievers and Communication in Relationship

High achievers are able to overcome challenges, whether they are personal or work-related. When it comes to communication, high achievers use certain skills and tactics that make them successful with their communication abilities in relationships. 

The way you communicate in your relationship can make or break it, so learning how high achievers communicate can help improve your relationship or prevent it from breaking down. When you learn how high achievers communicate with their partners, you’ll be better prepared to overcome any challenges that come your way and maintain the communication ability that makes your relationship strong.

The Challenges of Dating a High Achiever

There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship. But, like most couples, high achievers have their fair share of issues to tackle—and communication is usually a big one.  You may find that you and your significant other are speaking different languages when it comes to communicating, which can lead to frustration and misunderstandings. 

The good news? You can learn how to speak each other’s language by adjusting your approach and learning how he or she communicates best. One thing you can do is be aware of differences in communication style: Whether you’re an introvert or an extrovert, chances are there will be differences between how you communicate and how your partner does. 

For example, if you’re an extrovert who loves to talk about everything under the sun, it might seem strange to your quiet-natured partner that you want to discuss his or her feelings on something. Secondly, learn what makes him or her feel loved: If words aren’t your strong suit (or if they don’t come naturally), try putting more effort into actions than words.

Improving Communication Style in High Achievers

Communication is key to any relationship, but high achievers understand that there are differences between their style of communication and that of their partner. If you’re used to being a go-getter, here are some tips for communicating with your partner:  

1) Be vulnerable: One of the best ways to build trust is by showing vulnerability. Letting someone know that you’re not always strong or confident can help them feel more comfortable opening up around you as well.  

2) Give praise: When was the last time you told your partner how proud you were of him/her? It’s easy to get caught up in our own busy lives and forget about how far our partners have come. 

3) Listen actively: There’s nothing worse than feeling like no one hears what we have to say. Active listening means taking time to really hear what your partner has to say—not just waiting for him or her to finish speaking so you can respond.

4) Practice empathy: Empathy doesn’t mean that you agree with everything your partner says; it simply means putting yourself in his or her shoes and trying to understand where he or she is coming from. 

5) Use I statements: Don’t be afraid to express your feelings directly. Using I statements will make it clear exactly how you feel without making accusations or assigning blame.

Remember, relationships take effort, but they are worth every second of it. If you are in a relationship with a high achiever and need support, working with a relationship coach can help you find solutions, overcome barriers, learn new skills and implement positive changes. Give us a call today!